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erin aylmer, mft
erin aylmer, mft

 Couples Therapy
 

moving from conflict to connection

Our relationships have a way of bringing the deepest and most confronting parts of our selves to the surface. Beneath the conflict, there is often a meaningful story shaped by our experiences, our longing for connection, and the innate intelligence with which our biology adapts to protects us. 

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about erin 

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My approach

Hello and welcome, I'm Erin. I'm a classically trained psychotherapist with a keen interest in understanding the relationship between our biology, emotions, and lived experiences, especially within the context of our closest relationships.

 

I believe the ways we respond to conflict, distance, loss, betrayal, or disconnection reflect intelligent and deeply ingrained attempts to adapt, protect ourselves, and preserve connection.

services

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Couples Therapy

Couples therapy offers a space to slow down and become curious about the patterns that leave partners feeling disconnected, hurt, or alone. Together, we explore the deeper emotions beneath these patterns, creating new possibilities for understanding, healing, and connection.

Individual Sessions

Individual therapy offers a space to listen more deeply to the relationship between your body, emotions, and unconscious patterns, bringing curiosity and compassion to the ways your biology and psyche have learned to adapt and protect.

Conscious Uncoupling

Rather than viewing the end of a relationship as a failure, we explore the deeper experiences, needs, and protective responses beneath the pain, creating an opportunity to move through separation with greater awareness and dignity.

Counseling Astrology

A reflective space to explore the patterns, cycles, and archetypal themes that may be unfolding in your life and relationships. Using the birth chart as a symbolic map, we can bring unconscious patterns into awareness.

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Client Experiences

Hear how Erin has positively impacted the lives of her clients through their testimonials.

David, Satisfied Client

"My friends always talk about how stressed they are to go to therapy, but for us, sessions with Erin were always something to look forward to."

Sara, Happy Client

"It's only been a coupe of sessions, but I can already notice a difference in my life, even if only subtly so far."

Alex, Transformed Client

"In 40 years of therapy, this has been the most transformation I've experienced in my entire life."
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