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erin aylmer, mft
relationally rooted & biologically attuned
couple & family therapy

Welcome. I’m a relationship therapist devoted to the lifelong exploration of what it means to be a human being designed for connection.

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my services

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couples therapy

conflict resolution, emotional bonding, co-processing

family sessions

systems view, emotional attunement, co-regulation

individual sessions

self-recognition, emotional awareness, secure sense-of-self

astrology sessions

pattern recognition, timelines, phases of life, relational synastry

my approach

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I believe healing happens in relationship, with one another, and with Nature. I am continually inspired by the living intelligence of Nature's design, and the remarkable ways our bodies, emotions, and unconscious patterns work together in service of protection, connection, growth, and healing.

I view healing through a biological and relational lens, recognizing that many of our emotional and physical responses are intelligent adaptations shaped by our relationships, life experiences, and our innate drive toward wholeness. As an attachment-based therapist, I help clients recognize the protective patterns that once served them, soften the cycles that keep them feeling disconnected, and cultivate relationships rooted in greater security, authenticity, and love.

I earned my master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy in 2023 and I currently work at Northeast Health in Falmouth, where we accept insurance and Medicaid. My clinical work is grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), an evidence-based model that helps couples and families deepen emotional connection and build lasting security.

 

Alongside my clinical practice, I've been practicing archetypal astrology since 2018. When it feels supportive, I weave astrology into therapy as a symbolic language that illuminates unconscious dynamics, relational themes, and the larger cycles unfolding throughout our lives. Rather than predicting the future, it offers a meaningful framework for understanding ourselves with greater depth and compassion.

 

Above all, I strive to meet each person with warmth, honesty, and deep respect for their unique story. It is a privilege to witness the courage it takes to heal, grow, and love more fully.

 

If you are interested in working with me, please send an email to erinaylmer@gmail.

 

I would be honored to walk alongside you and your loved ones.

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