erin aylmer, mft
erin aylmer, mft
Couples Therapy
from conflict to connection
Our relationships have a way of bringing the deepest and most confronting parts of our selves to the surface. Beneath the conflict, there is often a meaningful story shaped by our experiences, our longing for connection, and the innate intelligence with which our biology adapts to protects us.
about erin
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My approach
Hello and welcome, I'm Erin. I'm a classically trained psychotherapist with a keen interest in understanding the relationship between our biology, emotions, and lived experiences, especially within the context of our closest relationships.
I believe the ways we respond to conflict, distance, loss, betrayal, or disconnection reflect intelligent and deeply ingrained attempts to adapt, protect ourselves, and preserve connection.
services
Couples Therapy
Couples therapy offers a space to slow down and become curious about the patterns that leave partners feeling disconnected, hurt, or alone. Together, we explore the deeper emotions beneath these patterns, creating new possibilities for understanding, healing, and connection.
Individual Sessions
Individual therapy offers a space to listen more deeply to the relationship between your body, emotions, and unconscious patterns, bringing curiosity and compassion to the ways your biology and psyche have learned to adapt and protect.
Conscious Uncoupling
Rather than viewing the end of a relationship as a failure, we explore the deeper experiences, needs, and protective responses beneath the pain, creating an opportunity to move through separation with greater awareness and dignity.
Counseling Astrology
A reflective space to explore the patterns, cycles, and archetypal themes that may be unfolding in your life and relationships. Using the birth chart as a symbolic map, we can bring unconscious patterns into awareness.
contact
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testimonials
Client Experiences
Hear how Erin has positively impacted the lives of her clients through their testimonials.
Lizzie, Satisfied Client
I can personally say she is absolutely amazing! ❤️ My partner and I work with her for couples therapy, and one of the things I appreciate most about her is how well she helps each person understand where the other is coming from without making either person feel like they’re being blamed or taking sides.
She has such a grounding, calming presence and an incredible way of meeting both people exactly where they’re at. She helps you slow things down, really hear each other, and understand what’s underneath the communication instead of just focusing on the disagreement itself.
Her overall energy is just wonderful, and we always leave feeling like we understand each other a little better. I genuinely can’t recommend her enough! ❤️